Okay so I guess we can’t be everything to everyone. And some people will like us and some will not. And vice versa.
That’s life and we cannot change other people. We can only change ourselves and master our reactions. People are people.
Does this sound like ranting or truth?
And how does this help us deal with the Wanker in our face?
How do you stop your heart rate rising ( getting hot not because you’ve go that loving feeling)?
How do you keep your mouth shut, not because you are biting your tongue but because you are not engaging in the massacre?
“Bloody impossible!” Is what you say to yourself.
One thing I learnt this weekend was that we need to be solution orientated and focus not on the problem but on the solution.
So what solution will work for you? What is the goal and what is your why?
You have been beating a dead horse problem for how long?
Forget the problem and think about where you are going.
Do you feel good? Do you feel like crap?
If you feel good then go for what you want. Cut out the mind and work trash and work for what you want.
If you don’t feel good then start asking yourself why you are so lucky? If you are on the Internet then you are living it up compared to a lot of people on the planet. We are spoilt people and we need to learn to appreciate what we have.
It’s a good place to start.
Don’t take anything for granted. And don’t be your own worst enemy!